Sleeping Position and Choosing a Pillow

the right pillow allows for a neutral sleeping position

The right pillow provides comfortable support, keeping your head, neck and spine in a neutral position all night long.

The position you sleep in has direct effects on your health. Sleeping position can affect your respiration, spinal alignment, and even wrinkling of the skin. There are proven ways to get a better nights sleep by using the right pillow, with the right amount of fill, and sleeping in the right positions.

Knowing how to sleep properly can improve your quality of life.

Your sleeping position and pillow work together to provide support for your head, neck and spine. Ideally, your spine is kept in what’s called a neutral position. A neutral sleeping position keeps all the bits and pieces in your back in an ideal posture, preventing unnecessary pressure on your discs, muscles and nerves. Keep your spine neutrally aligned and you’ll avoid discomfort (or worse).

Your preferred sleep position will help determine the best type of pillow suited for you.

Side Sleeping Position

diagram illustrating pillows with too little and too much loft. Too thick: spine/neck bent downward. Too thick: spine bent upwards.

Sleeping on your side with the wrong pillow can interfere with sleep and even lead to serious neck or back pain.

Sleeping on one’s side is the most common sleeping position. For most, it’s the instinctive and most comfortable way to sleep.

Side sleepers will prefer a high-loft (thicker) pillow.

This simply because there is more space to fill between your head and the mattress while on your side vs. other sleep positions. When you lie on your side, your pillow needs to be thick enough to keep your spine straight, but not so thick that it bends your neck out of alignment.

Side sleepers will be most comfortable on a firm or extra-firm pillow.

A common issue for side sleepers is that their pillow slowly collapses under the weight of their head during the night, becoming too thin. This loss of support will cause your head and neck to bend downwards, resulting in unnecessary strains that can lead to neck or back pain. Folding a pillow in half or using more than one pillow will not compensate for inadequate loft and support.

Read More: What Are the Best Pillows for Side Sleepers?
Read More: Learn How to Sleep on Your Side for Better Health

Back Sleeping Position

Diagram illustrating back sleeping position on pillow that is too thick, bending the spine upwards.

Most people are familiar with the discomfort associated with a pillow that is not the correct thickness.

Apparently 14% of us are back sleepers. Most sleep experts recommend back sleeping because it encourages better sleeping posture. Your head, neck and back are kept in a consistently neutral and comfortable position while on your back.

Back sleepers will prefer thinner low-loft pillows. 

The best pillow for back sleepers will adequately fill the space between yourself and the mattress, elevating your head only as high as is needed to achieve a neutral position. A pillow that’s too thick will elevate your head too high. As a result, your neck is bent upwards, potentially straining muscles, nerves and discs.

Conversely, a pillow that’s too thin will result in an uncomfortable downward bend in your neck.

A supportive, malleable pillow will prevent lateral neck twists and strains.

When on your back, gravity will pull your head to your left or right shoulder as you sleep. The ideal back sleeper pillow keeps your head positioned relatively straight, or upright, facing the ceiling. This reduces the lateral twist in your neck.

Read More: How to Choose the Best Pillow for Back Sleepers
Read More: Learn How to Sleep on Your Back

Stomach Sleeping Position

Stomach sleeper contorts his neck

This guy is going to feel it tomorrow!

Avoid sleeping on your stomach as it’s difficult to maintain a neutral sleeping position.

Sleeping on your stomach forces your head and spine into an unnatural upward bend. Staying in this position for hours on end is not good for your back or neck and can result in significant discomfort and restless sleep.

Can’t change your sleeping position? Stomach sleepers will prefer low-loft pillows. 

Stomach sleepers need considerably less fill in their pillow than someone who sleeps on their side or back. If you sleep on your stomach with a pillow that’s too thick (most traditional pillows are), your spine will bent at an angle which is more likely to cause aches, pains, or numbness.

A breathable pillow type that doesn’t retain heat will help to keep stomach sleepers cool.

Being that your exhaled breath is directed downward toward your pillow, it’s helpful to use a pillow type that doesn’t retain heat. Most traditional pillow fill can get pretty toasty if you’re blowing hot air into it all night.

Read More: Choosing the Best Stomach Sleeper Pillow
Read More: Sleeping on Your Stomach: Make the Most of It!

Your sleeping position matters.

It may seem impossible to control the position you sleep in since you aren’t aware while sleeping. If you have bad sleep posture, it is feasible to make a change. Good habits can make a considerable difference in the amount and quality of sleep you get.

When going to sleep, or if you wake up in the night, make a conscious effort to follow these guidelines:

  • Keep both your head and neck straight, in a neutral position, avoiding any twists and bends in your spine.
  • Use malleable pillows that are capable of conforming to your neck and spine as you change positions throughout the night.
  • According to the Mayo Clinic, “The most common sleeping position is on your side, with your legs and hips aligned and flexed. Because this position leaves your upper leg unsupported, the top knee and thigh tend to slide forward and rest on the mattress, rotating the lower spine. This slight rotation may contribute to back or hip pain. To prevent that problem, place a pillow between your knees and thighs…If you sleep on your back, place a pillow under your knees to help maintain the normal curve of your lower back. You might try a small, rolled towel under the small of your back for additional support. Support your neck with a pillow.”

How do I find the right pillow?

Squeezing products wrapped in plastic at the local store isn’t the way to find the best pillow. Ultimately, it’s preferable to test drive pillows in your own bed. Check the manufacturer’s return policy and make sure that you’re able to try it for at least a week. If it’s not right for you, toss it back in the box and return it.

You spend a third of your life with your head resting on a pillow, so a little extra shopping and experimentation is absolutely worth it.

I have a recommendation that works well for all sleep positions!

In case you haven’t guessed, we are huge fans of buckwheat pillows. Such huge fans that we started manufacturing and selling them ourselves. Their unique hull filling makes them supremely comfortable for all sleeping positions.

Buckwheat pillows are extremely effective at providing even and consistent support for you head and neck.

The thousands of tiny hulls will perfectly conform to the space between your head and the mattress eliminating potentially pain-causing pressure points in your neck and back. Buckwheat pillows offer firm, consistent support that will keep your head and neck comfortably positioned all night long.

Buckwheat pillows are adjustable.

High-quality buckwheat pillows always have a zipper. A zipper enables adjustment of the amount of filling in the pillow. As a result, you’re able to dial-in the thickness of your pillow so that it’s just right for you. Simply add or remove the buckwheat hull filling.

Buckwheat pillows are breathable.

The irregular and hollow shape of buckwheat hulls creates airspace within your pillow. Its breathable nature results in a cool, dry pillow, that gives you the “cool side of the pillow” effect all night long.

Buckwheat pillows are made from natural renewable materials.

Many popular pillow types contain polyurethane or polyester foam that can emit toxins and carcinogens that aren’t good for you or our environment. There’s no sense in risking your health or filling our landfills with potentially toxic waste!

Moreover, buckwheat crops benefit little from chemical fertilizers. It is free of many of the contaminants that are present in other crop types and is safe for your family and the environment. The hulls are compostable, which helps to reduce unnecessary waste in our landfills. It also keeps our soil healthy and nutrient rich for future generations. Finally, buckwheat pillows contain no animal products for those interested in a vegan lifestyle.

Try a buckwheat pillow.

Sleep on a Hullo for 60 nights. If you don’t care for it, just ship it back to us and we’ll refund the purchase price. Don’t take my word for it, read our customers’ reviews.